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The Living Experiment: Rethink Your Choices. Reclaim Your Life.

Join Dallas Hartwig and Pilar Gerasimo for this series of smart, rollicking, no-BS conversations about healthy, happy, conscious living — plus real-life "experiments" to help you discover the practical shifts that work best for you.
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Jul 31, 2016

This week on The Living Experiment, we talk about Lonely — the experience and stigma of that feeling, and the negative impacts it has on our well-being. We explore some of the reasons more of us are feeling lonely these days, and how we can get out of the vicious cycles that keep us more isolated than we’d like. We also suggest some experiments that help you create more time, space and energy for social connections that support your own health and happiness.

Episode Highlights

  • What is loneliness? Why do we get lonely? Dallas and Pilar share their thoughts (1:30)
  • How loneliness affects our lives and overall health (6:35)
  • Skin hunger (10:55)
  • Using television as a social crutch (13:30)
  • Recognizing loneliness and social withdrawal as a societal issue (15:00)
  • Untangling the knot of loneliness (20:25)
  • Social feeds as digital junk food — calories but no nutrients (24:30)
  • Why face-to-face contact matters (35:50)
  • Building the skills of assessing and alleviating your own loneliness (39:50)
  • Experiments for the week (50:30)

This Week's Experiments

Dallas suggests: Make your phone invisible in your living space.

  • Keep phones out of sight and silenced in the communal areas of your living space (living room, dining room, kitchen).
  • Try using an app that tracks your phone usage to become more aware of how often you’re looking at the screen.

Pilar suggests: Examine your weekly schedule. Where are there windows of opportunities for real human interaction?

  • Take a look at one week of your schedule and find the opportunities to have face-to-face connections with friends and family. Work events do not count for this experiment!
  • Find 15 minutes a few times a week to make yourself available to connect with strangers, like by sitting in a coffee shop without a cell phone or computer.

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Each week, we offer you a few life-shifting experiments to try on your own. We'd love to hear how they turn out, and what insights they provoke! Connect with The Living Experiment  on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, and share your stories with us there. 

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Jul 31, 2016

What's the difference between “Healthy” and “Hot”? We share what those descriptors mean to us, and how our definitions have evolved over time. We address the problem of hyper-perfected ideals in the media, the downsides of chasing aesthetics and metrics that don’t actually result in health, and we share some real-life experiments that can help you shift your own body-image ideals in a healthier, happier direction. 

Episode Highlights

  • Looking better vs. feeling better: Pursuing health (not just the appearance of it) for wise reasons (02:22)
  • Redefining “health” both mentally and emotionally (09:45)
  • What do we mean when we call someone “hot” and what’s that all about? (12:45)
  • Expressions of health as a signifier of potential-mate value, plus the evolutionary biology phenomenon of “faked fitness” (24:30)
  • Choosing good role models for health (36:45)
  • Reframing and refocusing your goals for health and fitness (40:00)
  • Experiments for the week (47:00)

Share the Love! 

Each week, we offer you a few life-shifting experiments to try on your own. We'd love to hear how they turn out, and what insights they provoke! Connect with The Living Experiment  on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, and share your stories with us there. 

Resources 

Jul 31, 2016

Can you live a healthy life in an unhealthy world? Yes, you can. But right now, more than 97 percent of U.S. adults aren’t managing it. So if you are one of the few brave souls who are currently beating the statistics, or intent on beating them, that makes you a freak of sorts—in a good way.  We explore what it means to live outside the prevailing, unhealthy norms, and what it takes. We also share a little of our own “freak” stories

Episode Highlights:

  • What The Living Experiment is all about and what we hope you’ll get out of it (3:00)
  • Facts and Figures: Some disturbing statistics about the current state of U.S. health norms (7:15)
  • Reclaiming the word “freak” and choosing empowered difference in a context of unhappy, unhealthy sameness (12:15)
  • Getting to know Dallas and Pilar: Their childhood origin stories and how they got to where they are now (15:50)
  • Setting yourself up for success (39:20)
  • Experiments for the week (45:20)

This Week's Experiments:

Dallas suggests: The more stressed we are, the more convinced we are that there’s too much to do and never enough time. Can we disrupt the flow?

  • Every time you go to the bathroom, take two deep breaths
  • Inhale for four beats, hold for one beat, and then exhale. Repeat this twice
  • Turn the notifications off on your phone. Put it away and silence it when in the company of other people.

Pilar suggests: Start seeing the madness. Notice the crazy, manipulative stuff you're bombarded with on a daily basis, and begin questioning it.

  • Be on the lookout for how aggressively (or subtly) unhealthy products and mindsets are marketed to you everywhere you go.
  • Take pictures of disturbing or undermining messages on signage and billboards, or tear bad/silly/absurd advertisements out of magazines as a way of raising your media awareness.

Share the Love!

Each week we offer you a few life-shifting experiments to try on your own. We'd love to hear how they turn out, and what insights they provoke! Connect with The Living Experiment on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter, and share your stories with us there.

Resources:

  • For statistical details on the sorry state of U.S. health habits, read the study Pilar referenced, as reported in the Mayo Clinic Proceedings
  • Visit The Living Experiment to watch our background video and subscribe to our newsletter (so you can stay up to date with us and future episodes).
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